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Mark Whalon

John Mark Whalon[1][2] (June 16, 1886[3][a] – September 14, 1956[2]) was an American poet and author. He was also a close friend of Bill Wilson, founder of Alcoholics Anonymous, and was an influential mentor and confidant to Wilson throughout his life.

Early life and education

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Whalon was born in East Dorset, Vermont in 1886, and lived most of his life in the town.[1] His parents were William C. and Rose Kelleher Whalon,[2] and his father worked in the marble industry.[4]

In 1904[5] he graduated from Burr and Burton Seminary (later renamed Burr and Burton Academy), a boarding and day school in nearby Manchester, Vermont.[1] Afterwards he attended the University of Vermont.[1][6][b]

Career

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As a young man, Whalon's employment included working at the town's General Store, working in the local quarries, working as a lumberjack, and working as a lineman for the telephone company.[7][8]

During World War I, he served as an aerial photographer for the 1102nd Aero Squadron.[1]

After the war, he returned to his hometown of East Dorset, and from 1925 to 1950 was the mail carrier throughout the Valley of Vermont.[1]

Whalon also wrote poetry, and by 1925 had published poems in the weekly Manchester Journal.[9][10] By 1928 he was publishing his poems regularly in Vermont's second-largest daily newspaper, Rutland Daily Herald, in that paper's "Peregrinations" poetry column.[1][11][12][13] Some of these poems were also reprinted in The Boston Globe.[14]

In 1933, he published a 60-page illustrated volume of his poetry, titled Rural Peace.[15] Manchester poet Walter Hard said of it, "Mark Whalon has taken some real Vermont sap, from the right kind of trees, and has boiled it down to produce an honest and delicious Vermont product. One taste and you'll want some more."[16] The Burlington Free Press wrote "There is said to be a lot of Vermont in a little volume of poetry called Rural Peace by Mark Whalon .... The homely themes of the farmhouse, the fields, the back road and the night skies are the basis of many of the poems."[17]

Whalon wrote a variety of prose opinion pieces for newspapers.[18][19][20] He also had humorous essays published in Yankee magazine.[21][22][23]

In 1942, he published a 135-page illustrated semi-autobiographical collection of Vermont-related essays and observations, Rural Free Delivery: Recollections of a Rural Mailman.[24] The Rutland Daily Herald said of it, "There is a lot in it that is pure hooey and was intended to be, but there is more that has the sharp barb of truth and hits where it hurts. The unorthodox treatment of some of Vermont's most cherished traditions and possessions will not be kindly received by those who are accustomed to the reverent approach."[25] The Burlington Free Press review said, "There are amusing pages on the legislature and legislators, maple sugar making, town meeting, butchering day, panthers and catamounts, tombstones and poetry, even the hole in the donut gets its share of the fun. Mr. Whalon airs his mind humorously and with vigor and there is none of the average Vermonter's understatement of things."[26]

In 1943 Whalon was the subject of a Life magazine photo-essay by photographer Alfred Eisenstaedt.[27][1][28] The photo-essay follows Whalon on his mail route – in below-zero winter temperatures, deep snow, and conditions that included one impassable road – from his leaving the post office to begin the route to his curling up in an armchair in his cottage after finishing it.[27]

Influence on Bill Wilson

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Whalon and Bill Wilson both grew up in East Dorset, Vermont, and first met in 1908.[8] Nine years Wilson's senior, Whalon was Wilson's closest childhood friend; he introduced him to the world of ideas,[29] and was a lifelong mentor.

Whalon knew everyone in town and showed Wilson the ropes.[7] He also drove Wilson around in the General Store delivery wagon to view the wealthy segment of the region.[7][8] The two friends discussed books and literature, ideas, class, wealth, social and socio-economic strata, political philosophy, local and world politics, spirituality, and democracy.[7][8]

They worked together on summer jobs and helped string the first telephone lines into East Dorset.[30] They hunted and fished together, and shared an interest in Vermont history.[30]

Whalon continued to be a mentor, confidant, counselor, and emotional support to Wilson, even after Wilson became world famous,[7] and as of his death in 1956 was still Wilson's best friend.[30] Wilson later wrote of him, "He was a sort of uncle or father to me."[7][31]

Personal life

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By mid September of 1922[32] Whalon was married to Kathleen Mitchell.[33] They had two sons, Lawrence J. Whalon[2][33] and Cornelius Bayard Whalon.[34] The couple separated in the summer of 1932,[35] and the marriage was annulled in 1933[36] after Kathleen murdered their five-year-old son Cornelius in an attempted murder-suicide poisoning.[37]

By the 1950s, Whalon had developed Parkinson's disease.[7] He died at the age of 70 in a nursing home in Bennington, Vermont, in 1956 following a long illness.[2]

At the time of his death he had seven grandchildren.[2]

Bibliography

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  • Whalon, Mark (1933). Rural Peace. Rutland, Vermont: Tuttle Company. OCLC 6641494
  • Whalon, Mark (1942). Rural Free Delivery: Recollections of a Rural Mailman. Brattleboro, Vermont: Stephen Daye Press. OCLC 1823455

Notes

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  1. ^ The August 6, 1886 birth date given in Whalon's obituary is an error.
  2. ^ There seems to be no evidence, however, that he graduated from the university.

References

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  1. ^ a b c d e f g h Mathewson, Jon (Autumn 2019). "Mark Whalon of East Dorset: Postal Carrier and Perceptive Poet" (PDF). Walloomsack Review. 25. Bennington Museum: 36–41. Retrieved June 6, 2024.
  2. ^ a b c d e f "Mark Whalon, Veteran Mail Carrier, Dies". Rutland Daily Herald. September 15, 1856. p. 11.
  3. ^ "Birth - Male: Walon, John Mark" Vermont, U.S., Vital Records, 1720-1908 for John Mark Whalon.
  4. ^ "William C. Whalon". Rutland Daily Herald. November 12, 1926. p. 15. Retrieved June 7, 2024.
  5. ^ "Burr and Burton Seminary". The Manchester Journal. June 23, 1904. p. 3.
  6. ^ "1906 Ariel - University of Vermont Yearbook - Burlington, Vermont". JustAJoy.com. Retrieved June 6, 2024.
  7. ^ a b c d e f g Cheever, Susan (2015). "Chapter Seven: Mark Whalon". My Name Is Bill: Bill Wilson—His Life and the Creation of Alcoholics Anonymous. Simon and Schuster. pp. 37–43. ISBN 9781439121894.
  8. ^ a b c d Thomsen, Robert (2010). Bill W.: The absorbing and deeply moving life story of Bill Wilson, co-founder of Alcoholics Anonymous. Simon and Schuster. pp. 40–48, 65, 72–75, 117–137, 318. ISBN 9781592859559.
  9. ^ Whalon, Mark (December 10, 1925). "To a Friend 'Up North'". The Manchester Journal. p. 1.
  10. ^ Whalon, Mark (June 30, 1927). "A Trifle Wild". The Manchester Journal. p. 7.
  11. ^ Whalon, Mark (October 9, 1928). "Vacation's End". Rutland Daily Herald. p. 4.
  12. ^ Whalon, Mark (June 13, 1932). "Day-Dreamer". Rutland Daily Herald. p. 8.
  13. ^ Whalon, Mark (July 21, 1936). "Sans Culotte". Rutland Daily Herald. p. 8.
  14. ^ Whalon, Mark (June 17, 1930). "Whittlin'". The Boston Globe. p. 28.
  15. ^ Whalon, Mark (1933). Rural Peace. Rutland, Vermont: Tuttle Company. OCLC 6641494
  16. ^ "Manchester". The Bennington Evening Banner. June 28, 1933. p. 3.
  17. ^ "Book Chat". The Burlington Free Press. July 29, 1933. p. 4.
  18. ^ Whalon, Mark (May 5, 1934). "Let 'Er Flicker". Rutland Daily Herald. p. 5.
  19. ^ Whalon, Mark (February 1, 1939). "Behind the Billboard". Rutland Daily Herald. p. 4.
  20. ^ Whalon, Mark (January 25, 1939). "Legislaturs and Legislaters". Rutland Daily Herald. p. 4.
  21. ^ Hale, Judson D. (1982). New England. Harper & Row. p. 65. ISBN 9780060150334. Here's an example from the 'Vermont diary' of Mark Whalon, as published in a Yankee magazine article back in 1937: 'March 15, 1758: Invented combined boot-jack, apple parer, and wife paddle. Tried contraption – works perfect in all three.'
  22. ^ Whalon, Mark (May 1938). "Yes, Sir, I'm the Rural Mailman!". Yankee. Vol. 4, no. 5. pp. 9–10.
  23. ^ Whalon, Mark (1939). "The Hole In The Doughnut". Yankee. Vol. 6. pp. 13–15.
  24. ^ Whalon, Mark (1942). Rural Free Delivery: Recollections of a Rural Mailman. Brattleboro, Vermont: Stephen Daye Press. OCLC 1823455
  25. ^ "Mark Whalon's Vermont". Rutland Daily Herald. June 20, 1942. p. 8.
  26. ^ "Book Chat". The Burlington Free Press. August 1, 1942. p. 5.
  27. ^ a b Eisenstaedt, Alfred. "Life Rides the Route of a Rural Mailman in Vermont". Life. January 14, 1943. pp. 94-97.
  28. ^ Cosgrove, Ben (January 16, 2013). "In Praise of . . . Wait for It . . . the U.S. Postal Service". Time. Retrieved June 6, 2024.
  29. ^ White, W. L. (1998). Slaying the Dragon: The History of Addiction Treatment and Recovery in America (PDF). Bloomington, Illinois: Chestnut Health Systems Publishing. p. 137. Retrieved June 6, 2024.
  30. ^ a b c 'Pass It On': The story of Bill Wilson and how the A.A. message reached the world (PDF). New York, New York: Alcoholics Anonymous World Service, Inc. 1984. Retrieved June 6, 2024.
  31. ^ Bill W.: My First 40 Years: An Autobiography by the Co-founder of AA. Simon and Schuster. 2010.
  32. ^ "East Dorset". Rutland Daily Herald. September 19, 1922. p. 10.
  33. ^ a b "Obituaries: Dr. Lawrence Whalon". Rutland Daily Herald. March 14, 1986. p. 10.
  34. ^ "AA History Lovers 2012" (PDF). Silkworth.net.
  35. ^ Whalon, Mark (August 25, 1932). "Notice!". The Manchester Journal. p. 4.
  36. ^ "Court Grants Divorce to 16". The Bennington Evening Banner. January 13, 1933. p. 1.
  37. ^ "Funeral of Cornelius Whalon". St. Albans Daily Messenger. September 29, 1932. p. 4.
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